What if stress isnโt the problem, but how you understand it?
Life and work stressors are inevitable. Endless to do lists, overcommitting to plans, road rage and domestic duties โ all of this can add up and make us feel stressed out and overwhelmed. The thing is though โ a bit of stress isnโt necessarily a bad thing. In the right doses, stress can even be helpful. It can sharpen focus, increase motivation, drive performance, and build resilience. But when our stress becomes constant, chronic, and unmanaged, ย things can start to unravel.
Languishing, disengagement, decision fatigueโthese arenโt just buzzwords; theyโre red flags. The research is clear: chronic stress impacts cognitive function, lowers productivity, and costs businesses billions in absenteeism and turnover. When stress is ongoing without effective coping strategies, it can lead to a state of languishingโfeeling stuck, unmotivated, and unable to thrive. So, the real question isnโt how do we eliminate stress?โbecause stress is unavoidable, and sometimes useful. Itโs how do we get better at handling it?
Understanding the Stress Response
Stress isnโt just a โmentalโ issueโitโs a full-body response. When triggered, your brain releases cortisol and adrenaline, shifting you into fight-or-flight mode. People either want to move away from the thing that is causing them stress (flight) or approach it and defend against it (fight). Some stress is normal, expected, and healthy – but if the stress response stays switched on, it starts wreaking havocโaffecting your immune system, metabolism, mood, and decision-making, and leading to physical and psychological problems.
The good news? You can train your stress response just like any other skill. Recognising triggers, understanding personal stress habits, and applying practical coping strategies can mean the difference between thriving under pressure, and languishing under prolonged stress.
The Workplace Impact
We all have different thresholds for stress, but workplaces that ignore the impact of stress altogether create environments where high achievers quietly struggle, and top talent walks out the door. Managing stress isnโt just a โwellbeing initiative.โ Itโs a business strategy.
When teams know how to manage stress effectively, they:
- Make better decisions
- Work more efficiently
- Stay engaged and motivated
- Are more loyal and productive
- Reduce absenteeism and turnover
Practical Ways to Build a Stronger Stress Response
Stress management isnโt about โrelaxing moreโ (because letโs be honest, this isnโt always realistic). Itโs about making small, strategic adjustments to how we react to pressure.
Here are some proven strategies:
- Know Your Triggers โ Identify the stressors that throw you off balance.
- Get Smart with Time Management โ Prioritise tasks and set realistic deadlines.
- Become a Mindfulness Master. Using mindfulness strategies such as ย the 5-4-3-2-1 Method can help you reset your brain and reduce stress.
- Breathe with Purpose โ Slow, deep breathing activates the body’s relaxation response.
- Support Networks Matter โ Whether itโs peer support or professional guidance, talking helps.
Building a Workplace That Handles Stress Better
Stress isnโt always a bad thing, but ignoring it is. Creating a culture that normalises stress awareness, encourages proactive coping strategies, and equips teams with the right tools is the key to preventing languishing.
At Be Well Co, weโve helped thousands of professionals reframe stress, giving them the tools to navigate pressure in healthier, more sustainable ways. Our Managing Stress workshop (1-2 hours) is designed to:
- Help your team understand how stress works in the brain and body
- Identify unhelpful stress habits and practical ways to modify them
- Equip leaders and teams with strategies to proactively manage stress
For National Stress Awareness Month, weโre offering a special rate:
- 2-hour workshop โ $3,500 (normally $3,990)
- 1-hour workshop โ $2,699 (normally $2,990)
Simply mention Stress Awareness Month Promotion when booking in April to start investing in your teamโs wellbeing. Handling stress well isnโt just good for people, itโs good for business.
Because stress is inevitable, but languishing doesnโt have to be.
Get in touch with us here to learn more about our Managing Stress Workshop (hello@bewellco.io)
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